Always use the name and pronouns a person has chosen for themselves. Their chosen name is their real name, regardless of legal status.
Do not ask about a person's body, genitalia, or specific surgical status. shemale thumbs jerking
Use "transgender" as an adjective, not a noun or verb (e.g., "She is a transgender woman," not "She is a transgendered," or "She is a trans"). Always use the name and pronouns a person