: View tension as a signal that something needs attention, whether it's a broken process or an unexpressed vulnerability.
The first step is internal. If your primary goal is "please, I don't want to fight," you will likely avoid necessary issues until they boil over. Seeing Conflict As an Opportunity
Aligning with your partner on decisions around pregnancy & childbirth : View tension as a signal that something
: Instead of waiting for a blow-up, proactively bring up minor "low level" concerns. This prevents the "SOS" intensity of long-ignored problems. 2. Core Communication Strategies I don't want to fight