Winning every argument isn’t about "crushing" your opponent; it’s about controlling the flow of the conversation so that you either come out on top or reach a resolution that favors you. 1. Control Your Emotions (The "Cool Head" Rule)
People lose arguments because they let the topic drift. If you’re arguing about the dishes, don't let them bring up "that thing you did three years ago."
"It seems like we’re just repeating ourselves now. Let’s take a break and circle back when there’s new information." 7. The Ultimate Secret: Define the Win